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Amanah & responsibility

Amanah means a trust — anything placed in your hands that you are answerable for. For a child that includes a borrowed pencil, a promise to a sibling, a secret a friend shared, and the hours of a day. These lessons take six hadith on exactly that: the signs of a hypocrite, the hadith that everyone is a guardian, the honour of earning with your own hands, the hadith that what a person tells you is a trust, the promise for whoever screens a Muslim, and the warning about health and free time. Each is anchored to its collection and number and to ayah references.

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Lesson 1 · Wa'd · ages 8-11

Keeping your promises

Breaking promises and betraying a trust are listed as the signs of a hypocrite — not small faults.

  1. The three signs

    The Prophet ﷺ said the signs of a hypocrite are three: he lies, he breaks his promises, and when trusted he proves dishonest.

  2. Fulfil your agreements

    Allah opens Surah Al-Ma'idah by telling the believers to fulfil their contracts.

  3. Promises will be asked about

    Allah says to fulfil the covenant, because the covenant will be asked about.

  4. Do not say what you won't do

    Allah calls it hateful to Him that you say something and then do not do it.

  5. Say In sha' Allah honestly

    It means 'if Allah wills' — not 'probably not'; use it when you truly intend to do the thing.

Surah Al-Maaida · 5:1

بِسْمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوٓا۟ أَوْفُوا۟ بِٱلْعُقُودِ ۚ أُحِلَّتْ لَكُم بَهِيمَةُ ٱلْأَنْعَٰمِ إِلَّا مَا يُتْلَىٰ عَلَيْكُمْ غَيْرَ مُحِلِّى ٱلصَّيْدِ وَأَنتُمْ حُرُمٌ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَحْكُمُ مَا يُرِيدُ

Yaaa aiyuhal lazeena aamanoo awfoo bil'uqood; uhillat lakum baheematul an'aami illaa maa yutlaa 'alaikum ghaira muhillis saidi wa antum hurum; innal laaha yahkumu maa yureed

“O you who have believed, fulfill [all] contracts. Lawful for you are the animals of grazing livestock except for that which is recited to you [in this Qur'an] - hunting not being permitted while you are in the state of ihram. Indeed, Allah ordains what He intends.”

Surah Al-Israa · 17:34

وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا۟ مَالَ ٱلْيَتِيمِ إِلَّا بِٱلَّتِى هِىَ أَحْسَنُ حَتَّىٰ يَبْلُغَ أَشُدَّهُۥ ۚ وَأَوْفُوا۟ بِٱلْعَهْدِ ۖ إِنَّ ٱلْعَهْدَ كَانَ مَسْـُٔولًۭا

Wa laa taqraboo maalal yateemi illaa billatee hiya ahsanu hattaa yablugha ashuddah; wa awfoo bil'ahd, innal 'ahda kaana mas'oolaa

“And do not approach the property of an orphan, except in the way that is best, until he reaches maturity. And fulfill [every] commitment. Indeed, the commitment is ever [that about which one will be] questioned.”

Surah As-Saff · 61:2

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لِمَ تَقُولُونَ مَا لَا تَفْعَلُونَ

Yaa ayyuhal lazeena aamanoo lima taqooloona maa laa taf'aloon

“O you who have believed, why do you say what you do not do?”

Surah As-Saff · 61:3

كَبُرَ مَقْتًا عِندَ ٱللَّهِ أَن تَقُولُوا۟ مَا لَا تَفْعَلُونَ

Kabura maqtan 'indal laahi an taqooloo maa laa taf'aloon

“Great is hatred in the sight of Allah that you say what you do not do.”

“The signs of a hypocrite are three: whenever he speaks, he tells a lie; whenever he promises, he always breaks it; if you trust him, he proves to be dishonest.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 33

Do this before next time

Write down one promise you made and haven't kept, and keep it this week.

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Lesson 2 · Mas'uliyyah · ages 12-15

Everyone is a guardian

Nobody is too young to be responsible for something. The Prophet ﷺ said every one of us is a guardian.

  1. The hadith

    The Prophet ﷺ said every one of you is a guardian and is responsible for his charges — and named the ruler, the man in his household, the woman in her home, and the servant over property.

  2. Your charges as a child

    A younger sibling, a pet, your own room, your homework — all of these are what you are guardian over.

  3. Protect your family

    Allah tells the believers to guard themselves and their families.

  4. Return trusts to their owners

    Allah commands that trusts be given back to those they belong to.

  5. You will be asked

    The hadith ends by repeating it: every one of you is a guardian and responsible for his charges.

Surah At-Tahrim · 66:6

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ قُوٓا۟ أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًۭا وَقُودُهَا ٱلنَّاسُ وَٱلْحِجَارَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلَٰٓئِكَةٌ غِلَاظٌۭ شِدَادٌۭ لَّا يَعْصُونَ ٱللَّهَ مَآ أَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُونَ مَا يُؤْمَرُونَ

Yaaa ayyuhal lazeena samanoo qooo anfusakum wa ahleekum naaranw waqoodu han naasu wal hijaaratu 'alaihaa malaaa'ikatun ghilaazun shidaadul laa ya'soonal laaha maa amarahum wa yaf'aloona maa yu'maroon

“O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.”

Surah An-Nisaa · 4:58

۞ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَأْمُرُكُمْ أَن تُؤَدُّوا۟ ٱلْأَمَٰنَٰتِ إِلَىٰٓ أَهْلِهَا وَإِذَا حَكَمْتُم بَيْنَ ٱلنَّاسِ أَن تَحْكُمُوا۟ بِٱلْعَدْلِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ نِعِمَّا يَعِظُكُم بِهِۦٓ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ سَمِيعًۢا بَصِيرًۭا

Innal laaha yaamurukum an tu'addul amaanaati ilaaa ahlihaa wa izaa hakamtum bainan naasi an tahkumoo bil 'adl; innal laaha yaamurukum an tu'addul amaanaati ilaaa ahlihaa wa izaa hakamtum bainan naasi an tahkumoo bil 'adl; innal laaha ni'immaa ya'izukum bih; innal laaha kaana Samee'am Baseera

“Indeed, Allah commands you to render trusts to whom they are due and when you judge between people to judge with justice. Excellent is that which Allah instructs you. Indeed, Allah is ever Hearing and Seeing.”

“Surely! Everyone of you is a guardian and is responsible for his charges: The Imam (ruler) of the people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects; a man is the guardian of his family (household) and is responsible for his subjects...”

Sahih al-Bukhari 7138

Do this before next time

Name three things you are the guardian of, and do one job for each of them today.

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Lesson 3 · Halal earning · ages 12-15

Earning with your own hands

There is honour in work. The Prophet ﷺ said no meal is better than the one earned by your own hands.

  1. The hadith

    The Prophet ﷺ said nobody has ever eaten a better meal than that which one has earned by working with one's own hands, and that Dawud ate from his own labour.

  2. Prophets worked

    Prophets were shepherds, carpenters and traders — work is not beneath a religious person.

  3. Do not take wrongly

    Allah forbids consuming each other's property unjustly.

  4. Work and worship together

    After Jumu'ah, Allah tells the believers to disperse and seek from His bounty.

  5. Honest trade only

    Allah forbids taking wealth by falsehood and tells us to trade by mutual consent.

Surah Al-Baqara · 2:188

وَلَا تَأْكُلُوٓا۟ أَمْوَٰلَكُم بَيْنَكُم بِٱلْبَٰطِلِ وَتُدْلُوا۟ بِهَآ إِلَى ٱلْحُكَّامِ لِتَأْكُلُوا۟ فَرِيقًۭا مِّنْ أَمْوَٰلِ ٱلنَّاسِ بِٱلْإِثْمِ وَأَنتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ

Wa laa taakuloo amwaalakum bainakum bilbaatili wa tudloo bihaaa ilal hukkaami litaakuloo fareeqam min amwaalin naasi bil ismi wa antum ta'lamoon

“And do not consume one another's wealth unjustly or send it [in bribery] to the rulers in order that [they might aid] you [to] consume a portion of the wealth of the people in sin, while you know [it is unlawful].”

Surah Al-Jumu'a · 62:10

فَإِذَا قُضِيَتِ ٱلصَّلَوٰةُ فَٱنتَشِرُوا۟ فِى ٱلْأَرْضِ وَٱبْتَغُوا۟ مِن فَضْلِ ٱللَّهِ وَٱذْكُرُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ كَثِيرًۭا لَّعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ

Fa-izaa qudiyatis Salaatu fantashiroo fil ardi wabtaghoo min fadlil laahi wazkurul laaha kaseeral la'allakum tuflihoon

“And when the prayer has been concluded, disperse within the land and seek from the bounty of Allah, and remember Allah often that you may succeed.”

Surah An-Nisaa · 4:29

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تَأْكُلُوٓا۟ أَمْوَٰلَكُم بَيْنَكُم بِٱلْبَٰطِلِ إِلَّآ أَن تَكُونَ تِجَٰرَةً عَن تَرَاضٍۢ مِّنكُمْ ۚ وَلَا تَقْتُلُوٓا۟ أَنفُسَكُمْ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ بِكُمْ رَحِيمًۭا

Yaaa aiyuhal lazeena aamanoo laa taakulooo amwaalakum bainakum bilbaatili 'illaaa an takoona tijaaratan 'an taraadim minkum; wa laa taqtulooo anfusakum; innal laaha kaana bikum Raheemaa

“O you who have believed, do not consume one another's wealth unjustly but only [in lawful] business by mutual consent. And do not kill yourselves [or one another]. Indeed, Allah is to you ever Merciful.”

“Nobody has ever eaten a better meal than that which one has earned by working with one's own hands. The Prophet of Allah, David used to eat from the earnings of his manual labor.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 2072

Do this before next time

Do one useful job properly and think about the difference between earning something and being given it.

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Lesson 4 · Keeping confidences · ages 8-11

A secret is a trust

When someone tells you something privately, that conversation itself becomes something you are holding for them.

  1. The hadith

    The Prophet ﷺ said: when a man tells something and then departs, it is a trust.

  2. Passing it on breaks it

    Repeating it 'to just one person' is exactly how the trust is broken.

  3. Two exceptions

    If someone is being harmed or is in danger, you must tell a trusted adult — protecting a person comes first.

  4. Betrayal is named

    Allah tells the believers not to betray Allah, the Messenger, or the trusts placed with them.

  5. Trusts go back

    Allah commands that trusts be returned to their owners.

Surah Al-Anfaal · 8:27

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تَخُونُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَٱلرَّسُولَ وَتَخُونُوٓا۟ أَمَٰنَٰتِكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ

Yaaa aiyuhal lazeena aamanoo laa takhoonal laaha war Rasoola wa takhoonooo amaanaatikum wa antum ta'lamoon

“O you who have believed, do not betray Allah and the Messenger or betray your trusts while you know [the consequence].”

Surah An-Nisaa · 4:58

۞ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَأْمُرُكُمْ أَن تُؤَدُّوا۟ ٱلْأَمَٰنَٰتِ إِلَىٰٓ أَهْلِهَا وَإِذَا حَكَمْتُم بَيْنَ ٱلنَّاسِ أَن تَحْكُمُوا۟ بِٱلْعَدْلِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ نِعِمَّا يَعِظُكُم بِهِۦٓ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ سَمِيعًۢا بَصِيرًۭا

Innal laaha yaamurukum an tu'addul amaanaati ilaaa ahlihaa wa izaa hakamtum bainan naasi an tahkumoo bil 'adl; innal laaha yaamurukum an tu'addul amaanaati ilaaa ahlihaa wa izaa hakamtum bainan naasi an tahkumoo bil 'adl; innal laaha ni'immaa ya'izukum bih; innal laaha kaana Samee'am Baseera

“Indeed, Allah commands you to render trusts to whom they are due and when you judge between people to judge with justice. Excellent is that which Allah instructs you. Indeed, Allah is ever Hearing and Seeing.”

“When a man tells something and then departs, it is a trust.”

Sunan Abi Dawud 4868

Do this before next time

Think of a secret you were told and check you have not repeated it — and tell an adult if someone is being hurt.

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Lesson 5 · Screening a Muslim · ages 12-15

Covering someone's mistake

Helping someone out of trouble quietly, instead of announcing it, earns the same treatment from Allah.

  1. The hadith

    The Prophet ﷺ said whoever fulfils the needs of his brother, Allah will fulfil his needs, and whoever screens a Muslim, Allah will screen him on the Day of Resurrection.

  2. Do not hand people over

    The same hadith says a Muslim should not oppress his brother nor hand him over to an oppressor.

  3. Not covering up harm

    Screening a mistake is not hiding bullying or abuse — those must be reported to a trusted adult.

  4. Help each other in good

    Allah tells us to cooperate in righteousness and not in sin.

  5. Do not spread it

    Allah warns those who love that shameful things about believers should be spread around.

Surah Al-Maaida · 5:2

يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَا تُحِلُّوا۟ شَعَٰٓئِرَ ٱللَّهِ وَلَا ٱلشَّهْرَ ٱلْحَرَامَ وَلَا ٱلْهَدْىَ وَلَا ٱلْقَلَٰٓئِدَ وَلَآ ءَآمِّينَ ٱلْبَيْتَ ٱلْحَرَامَ يَبْتَغُونَ فَضْلًۭا مِّن رَّبِّهِمْ وَرِضْوَٰنًۭا ۚ وَإِذَا حَلَلْتُمْ فَٱصْطَادُوا۟ ۚ وَلَا يَجْرِمَنَّكُمْ شَنَـَٔانُ قَوْمٍ أَن صَدُّوكُمْ عَنِ ٱلْمَسْجِدِ ٱلْحَرَامِ أَن تَعْتَدُوا۟ ۘ وَتَعَاوَنُوا۟ عَلَى ٱلْبِرِّ وَٱلتَّقْوَىٰ ۖ وَلَا تَعَاوَنُوا۟ عَلَى ٱلْإِثْمِ وَٱلْعُدْوَٰنِ ۚ وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ ۖ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ شَدِيدُ ٱلْعِقَابِ

Yaaa aiyuhal lazeena aamanoo laa tuhilloo sha'aaa 'iral laahi wa lash Shahral Haraama wa lal hadya wa lal qalaaa'ida wa laa aaammeenal Baital Haraama yabtaghoona fadlam mir Rabbihim wa ridwaanaa; wa izaa halaltum fastaadoo; wa laa yajrimannakum shana aanu qawmin an saddookum 'anil Masjidil-Haraami an ta'tadoo; wa ta'aawanoo 'alalbirri wattaqwaa; wa laa ta'aawanoo 'alal ismi wal'udwaan; wattaqul laah; innal laaha shadeedul 'iqaab

“O you who have believed, do not violate the rites of Allah or [the sanctity of] the sacred month or [neglect the marking of] the sacrificial animals and garlanding [them] or [violate the safety of] those coming to the Sacred House seeking bounty from their Lord and [His] approval. But when you come out of ihram, then [you may] hunt. And do not let the hatred of a people for having obstructed you from al-Masjid al-Haram lead you to transgress. And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do not cooperate in sin and aggression. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is severe in penalty.”

Surah An-Noor · 24:19

إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ يُحِبُّونَ أَن تَشِيعَ ٱلْفَٰحِشَةُ فِى ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ لَهُمْ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌۭ فِى ٱلدُّنْيَا وَٱلْءَاخِرَةِ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ

Innal lazeena yuhibboona an tashee'al faahishatu fil lazeena aamanoo lahum 'azaabun aleemun fid dunyaa wal Aakhirah; wallaahu ya'lamu wa antum laa ta'lamoon

“Indeed, those who like that immorality should be spread [or publicized] among those who have believed will have a painful punishment in this world and the Hereafter. And Allah knows and you do not know.”

“A Muslim is a brother of another Muslim, so he should not oppress him... whoever brought his brother out of a discomfort, Allah will bring him out of the discomforts of the Day of Resurrection, and whoever screened a Muslim, Allah will screen him.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 2442

Do this before next time

Help someone fix a mistake quietly this week without telling anyone else about it.

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Lesson 6 · Two blessings · ages 8-11

Time and health are trusts

Two gifts get wasted more than any others, because they feel free: your health and your spare time.

  1. The hadith

    The Prophet ﷺ said there are two blessings which many people lose: health and free time.

  2. Allah swears by time

    Surah Al-'Asr opens with an oath by time, then says mankind is in loss — except those who believe and do good.

  3. Use energy while you have it

    Being able to run, pray and memorise easily is a season, not a permanent state.

  4. You will be asked

    Allah says: did you think We created you without purpose?

  5. Plan a little

    Deciding your salah times, reading and play in advance is how free time stops disappearing.

Surah Al-Asr · 103:1

بِسْمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ وَٱلْعَصْرِ

Wal' asr

“By time,”

Surah Al-Asr · 103:2

إِنَّ ٱلْإِنسَٰنَ لَفِى خُسْرٍ

Innal insaana lafee khusr

“Indeed, mankind is in loss,”

Surah Al-Asr · 103:3

إِلَّا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ وَعَمِلُوا۟ ٱلصَّٰلِحَٰتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا۟ بِٱلْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا۟ بِٱلصَّبْرِ

Il lal lazeena aamanu wa 'amilus saali haati wa tawa saw bil haqqi wa tawa saw bis sabr

“Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience.”

Surah Al-Muminoon · 23:115

أَفَحَسِبْتُمْ أَنَّمَا خَلَقْنَٰكُمْ عَبَثًۭا وَأَنَّكُمْ إِلَيْنَا لَا تُرْجَعُونَ

Afahsibtum annamaa khalaqnaakum 'abasanw wa annakum ilainaa laa turja'oon

“Then did you think that We created you uselessly and that to Us you would not be returned?"”

“There are two blessings which many people lose: (they are) health and free time for doing good.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 6412

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Plan tomorrow on paper: salah times, one useful thing, one active thing, one thing for fun.

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