Skip to main content

The journey to the House

Hajj

Hajj is the fifth pillar, and every Muslim who is able goes once in a lifetime. These lessons walk a child through the journey in the order it happens, from the two plain cloths of ihram to the standing at Arafah and the meat shared at Eid al-Adha — with the ayahs and hadith that each rite comes from, so a child understands what the millions of people on television are actually doing.

A clay cube covered in a dark cloth with a gold band, standing alone on a cream floor
A stone-grey clay cube wrapped in a dark cloth with a gold embroidered band, small clay stones beside it

Lesson 1 · Makkah · ages 5-7

The first house

The Ka'bah is a plain cube of stone. It is not worshipped — it is the house Ibrahim and Isma'il raised, and the direction every Muslim faces.

  1. Ibrahim built it with his son

    The Qur'an tells us Ibrahim and Isma'il raised the foundations of the House, praying that Allah accept it from them.

  2. The first house of worship

    Allah calls it the first House established for mankind, at Bakkah, blessed and a guidance for the worlds.

  3. We face it, we do not worship it

    Muslims pray towards the Ka'bah so the whole ummah faces one point; the worship itself is only for Allah.

  4. The call went out

    Ibrahim was told to proclaim the pilgrimage to the people — and they still come, from every country on earth.

  5. Everyone looks the same there

    Around the Ka'bah there are no seats for rich people and no queue for famous people.

Surah Al-Baqara · 2:127

وَإِذْ يَرْفَعُ إِبْرَٰهِۦمُ ٱلْقَوَاعِدَ مِنَ ٱلْبَيْتِ وَإِسْمَٰعِيلُ رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّآ ۖ إِنَّكَ أَنتَ ٱلسَّمِيعُ ٱلْعَلِيمُ

Wa iz yarfa'u Ibraaheemul qawaa'ida minal Baitiwa Ismaa'eelu Rabbanaa taqabbal minnaa innaka Antas Samee'ul Aleem

“And [mention] when Abraham was raising the foundations of the House and [with him] Ishmael, [saying], "Our Lord, accept [this] from us. Indeed You are the Hearing, the Knowing.”

Surah Aal-i-Imraan · 3:96

إِنَّ أَوَّلَ بَيْتٍۢ وُضِعَ لِلنَّاسِ لَلَّذِى بِبَكَّةَ مُبَارَكًۭا وَهُدًۭى لِّلْعَٰلَمِينَ

Inna awwala Baitinw wudi'a linnaasi lallazee bi Bakkata mubaarakanw wa hudal lil 'aalameen

“Indeed, the first House [of worship] established for mankind was that at Makkah - blessed and a guidance for the worlds.”

Surah Al-Hajj · 22:27

وَأَذِّن فِى ٱلنَّاسِ بِٱلْحَجِّ يَأْتُوكَ رِجَالًۭا وَعَلَىٰ كُلِّ ضَامِرٍۢ يَأْتِينَ مِن كُلِّ فَجٍّ عَمِيقٍۢ

Wa azzin fin naasi bil Hajji yaatooka rijaalanw wa 'alaa kulli daamiriny yaateena min kulli fajjin 'ameeq

“And proclaim to the people the Hajj [pilgrimage]; they will come to you on foot and on every lean camel; they will come from every distant pass -”

Do this before next time

Find Makkah on a map or globe, then check which way your prayer mat at home points.

Two plain white folded clay cloths stacked with simple clay sandals and a small gold swirl above

Lesson 2 · Setting out · ages 8-11

Ihram and the talbiyah

Pilgrims put on two plain white cloths and start calling out the talbiyah — the answer to Ibrahim's call.

  1. Two simple cloths

    Men wear two unstitched white sheets; women wear their ordinary modest clothes. No fine outfits, no showing off.

  2. The state, not the clothes

    Ihram is a state: no cutting hair or nails, no perfume, no hunting, no arguing, no harming even a plant.

  3. The talbiyah

    The Prophet's ﷺ talbiyah was: Labbayk Allahumma labbayk, labbayka la sharika laka labbayk, inna-l-hamda wan-ni'mata laka wal-mulk, la sharika lak.

  4. What it means

    Here I am, O Allah, here I am. You have no partner. All praise, all blessing and all sovereignty are Yours.

  5. Said out loud, all the way

    Pilgrims keep repeating it from the boundary of ihram until they begin the rites in Makkah, so the whole valley is one voice.

“The Talbiya of Allah's Messenger ﷺ was: Labbaika Allahumma labbaik, Labbaika la sharika Laka labbaik, Inna-l-hamda wan-ni'mata Laka walmulk, La sharika Laka.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 1549

Memorise this

لَبَّيْكَ اللَّهُمَّ لَبَّيْكَ، لَبَّيْكَ لَا شَرِيكَ لَكَ لَبَّيْكَ

Labbayk Allahumma labbayk, labbayka la sharika laka labbayk

Here I am, O Allah, here I am. Here I am — You have no partner — here I am.

Sahih al-Bukhari 1549

Do this before next time

Learn the first line of the talbiyah by heart and say it to a parent from memory.

A clay cube at the centre of seven gold clay rings on the floor with a small water jug at the edge

Lesson 3 · Around and between · ages 8-11

Tawaf and sa'i

Seven circles around the Ka'bah, then seven walks between two small hills — because a mother once ran there looking for water.

  1. Seven times round

    Tawaf is seven circuits of the Ka'bah, walking anticlockwise, making dua the whole way.

  2. Safa and Marwah

    Allah says in the Qur'an that Safa and Marwah are among the symbols of Allah, so there is no blame in going between them.

  3. A mother's search

    Ismail's mother went back and forth between those hills looking for water for baby Ismail — and Zamzam came out near him. Pilgrims still drink it.

  4. Crowds and kindness

    Millions of people are doing this together, so pushing, shoving and shouting at people is the opposite of the point.

  5. It is dua, not a race

    There is no fixed magic phrase for each circuit: pilgrims ask Allah for what they need in their own words.

Surah Al-Baqara · 2:158

۞ إِنَّ ٱلصَّفَا وَٱلْمَرْوَةَ مِن شَعَآئِرِ ٱللَّهِ ۖ فَمَنْ حَجَّ ٱلْبَيْتَ أَوِ ٱعْتَمَرَ فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِ أَن يَطَّوَّفَ بِهِمَا ۚ وَمَن تَطَوَّعَ خَيْرًۭا فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ شَاكِرٌ عَلِيمٌ

Innas Safaa wal-Marwata min sha'aaa'iril laahi faman hajjal Baita awi'tamara falaa junaaha 'alaihi ai yattawwafa bihimaa; wa man tatawwa'a khairan fa innal laaha Shaakirun'Aleem

“Indeed, as-Safa and al-Marwah are among the symbols of Allah. So whoever makes Hajj to the House or performs 'umrah - there is no blame upon him for walking between them. And whoever volunteers good - then indeed, Allah is appreciative and Knowing.”

“Ibn Abbas narrated that Ishmael's mother ran between Safa and Marwa seven times searching for water, until an angel struck the ground near baby Ishmael and Zamzam sprang out.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 3364

“Jabir described the Hajj of the Prophet ﷺ: at the House he made seven circuits, then went out to Safa and Marwa, and later that journey took the pilgrims on to Muzdalifa and Mina.”

Sahih Muslim 1218a

Do this before next time

Walk seven slow circles around something in your garden or room while making one dua on each circuit.

A wide gentle clay hill on a flat plain with a small cream tent and an open clay Qur'an on a stand

Lesson 4 · The heart of Hajj · ages 12-15

The day of Arafah

On the ninth of Dhul-Hijjah everyone stands on the plain of Arafah, hands raised, until sunset. Miss this and there is no Hajj.

  1. Hajj is Arafah

    The Prophet ﷺ had it proclaimed at Arafat: the Hajj is Arafah — whoever came before Fajr has attended the Hajj.

  2. What people do there

    They stand, or sit, and make dua from after Zuhr until sunset. No special building, no ceremony — just asking Allah.

  3. Fasting for those at home

    Muslims who are not on Hajj fast the day of Arafah, which is a sunnah full of reward.

  4. Coming back clean

    The Prophet ﷺ said whoever performs Hajj for Allah's pleasure and avoids sin returns as if he were born anew.

  5. Then Muzdalifah and Mina

    After sunset pilgrims move to Muzdalifah for the night, then to Mina for the remaining days.

“The Hajj is Arafah. Whoever came to Jam during the night, before the time of Fajr, then he has attended the Hajj.”

Jami' at-Tirmidhi 889

“Whoever performs Hajj for Allah's pleasure and does not commit evil or sins, then he will return free from all sins as if he were born anew.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 1521

“Jabir described the Hajj of the Prophet ﷺ: he stood at Arafah until sunset, then travelled on to Muzdalifa for the night and continued to Mina for the days that followed.”

Sahih Muslim 1218a

Do this before next time

On the next day of Arafah, raise your hands after Zuhr and make dua for five people by name.

A woolly clay sheep standing beside three clay bowls of shared food and a folded cream cloth

Lesson 5 · The feast of sacrifice · ages 8-11

Eid al-Adha

The greater Eid remembers Ibrahim's readiness to obey Allah — and the animal Allah sent instead. Most of the meat is given away.

  1. Ibrahim's test

    The Qur'an tells how Ibrahim saw in a dream that he would sacrifice his son, told him, and the boy answered that he would be patient.

  2. Allah ransomed him

    Allah stopped the sacrifice and ransomed the boy with a great sacrifice — the test was obedience, not the killing.

  3. Prayer first, then udhiyah

    The Prophet ﷺ said whoever slaughtered before the Eid prayer had only offered meat to his family, not a sacrifice at all.

  4. What reaches Allah

    Allah says it is not the meat or blood that reaches Him, but the taqwa of the one who offers it.

  5. Share the meat

    The meat is divided between the family, relatives and the poor — the Eid where the neighbours eat best.

Surah As-Saaffaat · 37:102

فَلَمَّا بَلَغَ مَعَهُ ٱلسَّعْىَ قَالَ يَٰبُنَىَّ إِنِّىٓ أَرَىٰ فِى ٱلْمَنَامِ أَنِّىٓ أَذْبَحُكَ فَٱنظُرْ مَاذَا تَرَىٰ ۚ قَالَ يَٰٓأَبَتِ ٱفْعَلْ مَا تُؤْمَرُ ۖ سَتَجِدُنِىٓ إِن شَآءَ ٱللَّهُ مِنَ ٱلصَّٰبِرِينَ

Falamma balagha ma'a hus sa'ya qaala yaa buniya inneee araa fil manaami anneee azbahuka fanzur maazaa taraa; qaala yaaa abatif 'al maa tu'maru satajidunee in shaaa'allaahu minas saabireen

“And when he reached with him [the age of] exertion, he said, "O my son, indeed I have seen in a dream that I [must] sacrifice you, so see what you think." He said, "O my father, do as you are commanded. You will find me, if Allah wills, of the steadfast."”

Surah As-Saaffaat · 37:107

وَفَدَيْنَٰهُ بِذِبْحٍ عَظِيمٍۢ

Wa fadainaahu bizibhin 'azeem

“And We ransomed him with a great sacrifice,”

Surah Al-Hajj · 22:37

لَن يَنَالَ ٱللَّهَ لُحُومُهَا وَلَا دِمَآؤُهَا وَلَٰكِن يَنَالُهُ ٱلتَّقْوَىٰ مِنكُمْ ۚ كَذَٰلِكَ سَخَّرَهَا لَكُمْ لِتُكَبِّرُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ عَلَىٰ مَا هَدَىٰكُمْ ۗ وَبَشِّرِ ٱلْمُحْسِنِينَ

Lany yanaalal laaha luhoo muhaa wa laa dimaaa'uhaa wa laakiny yanaaluhut taqwaa minkum; kazaalika sakhkharhaa lakum litukabbirul laaha 'alaa ma hadaakum; wa bashshirul muhsineen

“Their meat will not reach Allah, nor will their blood, but what reaches Him is piety from you. Thus have We subjected them to you that you may glorify Allah for that [to] which He has guided you; and give good tidings to the doers of good.”

“The first thing we should do on this day of ours is to pray and then return and slaughter our sacrifices. Whoever slaughtered before the prayer, it was just meat that he offered to his family and would not be considered a sacrifice in any way.”

Sahih al-Bukhari 968

Do this before next time

Find out who receives your family's udhiyah meat this year, and help deliver one portion of it.

Every ayah on this page comes from the Tanzil Uthmani text of the Qur'an with the Sahih International translation, and every hadith carries its collection and number so you can check it yourself. Back to the learning path

Next on this shelf: The three sacred masjids — 5 lessons.

1-to-1 lessons

Go deeper into hajj

A teacher can answer your child's questions properly, check their understanding, and take this further at their own pace.

Book a tutor for this